Something to think about!
ARE WE GETTING IN GOD'S WAY?
Maybe you took on a responsibility that God had not given you, or perhaps you tried to avoid a situation He wanted to use in your life to accomplish His purpose.
Even when we sincerely desire to follow the Lord, we may unknowingly veer off course and become an obstacle to His purposes.
That’s why it’s so important to seek the Lord’s guidance before we try to maneuver our way out of a difficult situation or rush in to fix a problem.
Our plans often seem logical, reasonable, or compassionate, but if they don’t align with the Lord’s will, we are just getting in His way.
And remember ladies;
Always keep it Classy, Cute, Charismatic, and Confident
-Lady J
What is "Normal Living"?
This question has been asked many times to me, so I thought I’d tackle it today…
Normal?
Normal as an adjective is: conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.
Normal as a Noun is: the usual, average, or typical state or condition.
Today I’m going to venture out to use in adjective form. Also in the form of a question first.
What are you conforming to in order to appear as NORMAL?
You see, normal for me may not appear as normal to you.
Which means everyone’s NORMAL is different. I view normal living as comfortable living.
For me that’s Life, good-health, and strength. Of course bills(necessities), yet money to pay them without struggle.
A decent automobile whether luxury or not as long as it’s not one mile before death.
A clean, decent place to lay my head.
Food to eat, clothes to wear, you know all the basics taken care of.
Then comfortable enough to step out sometimes and treat yourself to something extra. A dinner at a nice upscale restaurant, a new outfit, etc......
However, that may not be the NORMAL living for some. Some have a high level of anxiety to the place where their normal living consists of traveling the country, exploring, doing things that would be (out of the norm). Jumping from airplanes etc....
Tap in and leave your thoughts ladies.
So ladies, what’s your definition of NORMAL living?
*There will be a drawing with the first 10 participants. The Winner will receive a copy of the book we are currently reading on Pillow Talk entitled: Desperate Pastors’ Wives*
And remember ladies;
Always keep it Classy, Cute, Charismatic, and Confident
-Lady J
*DISCLAIMER: (THIS IS A BLOG PEOPLE) I DON’T KNOW IT ALL!*
A BLOG is a discussion or informational website consisting of discrete, often informal diary-style text entries.
So you ask,
How can you disconnect from a soul tie?
Come sit with me, Let's take a moment to dive into this a bit..
Understand that a soul tie is a spiritual connection between 2 people. It can derive from being physically intimate or emotionally intimate. EX: (Married and still have a soul tie to the child’s Mother/Father)
Soul ties can vary to include both Godly and ungodly soul ties, relationship (physical) soul ties, sexual soul ties, mutual soul ties and more. The most commonly known soul tie, is a Relationship soul tie, as mentioned earlier. A spiritual connection that is formed through a sexual relationship.
The ORIGINAL purpose of a soul tie is to draw people closer to God. (The enemy always comes to add chaos to what was created to get us closer) remember:
John 10:10 The thief comes not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.
The enemy wants to destroy our relationship with God (PERIODT)
Some Symptoms of a soul tie:
You have an emotional reaction that is unpleasant when someone mentions their name.
You find it difficult to control your emotional reactions if you run into the other person unexpectedly.
You feel as if you can’t move on with your life;
You feel tied to the past with the other person.
HOW TO DISCONNECT?...
Well of course I must put this disclaimer out Again:
*THIS IS A BLOG PEOPLE*
Soul ties can be Mutual or One-sided..
Mutual soul ties - when two people have a relationship with one another. They love or hate each other and they are aware of the impact they have on the other person. EX. Married couples would have mutual soul ties.
One-sided soul ties - one person is excessively attached to someone (in some cases, who may not even know they exist). This soul tie happens when one person falls in love but the other person is not reciprocating.
To DISCONNECT,
You MUST fill the void ( Move ON).
HOW?
From a just broad perspective - You must ALLOW YOURSELF to feel the pain of Disconnection. Don’t make excuses to see or talk to the person unnecessarily.
If you have to communicate because of work/child etc... do just that and only that.
Cut off any other communication.
You also must find something to occupy that space. Exercise, reading, writing, cooking, etc...... not just another relationship.
From a Godly/Christian perspective - You must seek GOD!
HOW?
Through Prayer, fasting, and reading His Word. (Matthew 17:21) However, this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.)
A soul tie is a STRONG Hold.......
So tell me ladies, chat with me..
Are you struggling to disconnect a soul tie?
Have you overcome one? If so, how'd you do it?
And remember ladies;
Always keep it Classy, Cute, Charismatic, and Confident
-Lady J